Hope after Abortion

“I would now like to say a special word to women who have had an abortion. The Church is aware of the many factors which may have influenced your decision, and she does not doubt that in many cases it was a painful and even shattering decision. The wound in your heart may not yet have healed. Certainly what happened was and remains terribly wrong. But do not give in to discouragement and do not lose hope. Try rather to understand what happened and face it honestly. If you have not already done so, give yourselves over with humility and trust to repentance. The Father of mercies is ready to give you his forgiveness and his peace in the Sacrament of Reconciliation. To the same Father and his mercy you can with sure hope entrust your child. With the friendly and expert help and advice of other people, and as a result of your own painful experience, you can be among the most eloquent defenders of everyone’s right to life. Through your commitment to life, whether by accepting the birth of other children or by welcoming and caring for those most in need of someone to be close to them, you will become promoters of a new way of looking at human life.”

– Pope St. John Paul II (Evangelium Vitae, 99)

It’s normal to grieve a pregnancy loss, including the loss of a child by abortion. It can form a hole in one’s heart, a hole so deep that sometimes it seems nothing can fill the emptiness.  If you or someone you know is suffering after abortion, confidential non-judgmental help is available.

Please visit the Project Rachel website for more information and resources, or contact our Project Rachel Referral Line by calling 815-387-3379 or 1-888-456-HOPE. If you prefer to send an email, contact us at projectrachelrockford@gmail.com. Peace starts here.

Additional Resources:

After Abortion: God Offers Forgiveness, Healing, and Hope | EnglishEspañol |

Reclaiming Fatherhood: A Multifaceted Examination of Men Dealing with Abortion

Men and Abortion: Finding Healing, Restoring Hope

Web-based Healing – Project Rachel


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